Greg Cook

Mortgage Broker | NMLS: 283159

"Reverse Mortgages: Have We Had It Wrong All These Years?"

How to answer the "what about the kids?" question with confidence and clarity. As a financial advisor, you’ve been there. You mention the strategic use of housing wealth in retirement, and the conversation immediately hits a brick wall: "But what about the kids?I don't want to drain my home equity. I want to leave something behind."

For decades, this single emotional concern has derailed numerous sound financial strategies. We’ve been trained to view a reverse mortgage (HECM) as a loan of last resort, a tool that only makes sense when all other options have been exhausted.

But what if we’ve been having the wrong conversation all along?

What if, instead of focusing on just one number—the loan balance—we look at the client's entire estate over the full 20-or 30-year horizon of their retirement? When you do, the math tells a very different, and much more compelling, story.

Let's break down the two powerful "engines" that a HECM can add to a retirement plan, transforming it from a source of fear into a source of strength.

Engine #1: The Equity Growth Advantage

Let's start with a simple, powerful concept that often gets missed. Appreciation works on the total value of the home, while interest only accrues on the loan balance.

Imagine a $400,000 home with a $140,000 reverse mortgage. Using the historical 20-year averages for appreciation (~4.7%) and mortgage rates (~5%), look at what happens in just one year:

  • Home Value Growth: The home appreciates by $18,800 ($400k x 4.7%).

  • Loan Balance Growth: The loan accrues $7,000 in interest ($140k x 5%).

In a single year, the client's net equity position increased by over $11,000. Their estate grew, not shrank. This is the Reverse Mortgage Leverage Effect, and it works quietly in the background for the entire life of the loan.

Engine #2: The Cash Flow Transformation

This is where the strategy becomes life-changing for your clients. One of the most common uses of a HECM is to pay off a remaining forward mortgage.

Think about a client who eliminates a $1,500 monthly mortgage payment.

  • Over one year, that's $18,000 in cash flow they no longer need to generate.

  • Over 20 years, that's $360,000 in payments they never have to make.

This isn't just "extra money." It's capital that no longer needs to be pulled from their TSP, 401(k), or other investment accounts. This allows their investment portfolio to remain fully invested, harnessing the power of compound growth for decades.

Putting It All Together: The 20-Year Horizon

Now, let's show our client the full picture. Let's run both engines for 20 years.

Using the same numbers from above (and a modest 7% return on the preserved investments), the outcome is stunning:

  1. The House: The home, originally worth $400,000, grows to be worth over $1 million. After subtracting the grown loan balance, the heirs are still left with over $630,000 in home equity.

  2. The Preserved Investments: That $1,500/month left in the portfolio doesn't just equal $360,000. With compound growth, it becomes over $730,000.

The total inheritance? Over $1.3 Million.

Beyond the Numbers: The Peace of Mind Dividend

The numbers are compelling, but they only tell half the story. A financial plan on a spreadsheet is one thing; living it out during a volatile market is another. This brings us to the most overlooked, yet most valuable, returns on investment: The Peace of Mind Dividend.

Many retirees cling to their fixed mortgage payment because it's the "devil they know." But its stability is an illusion. The payment amount is fixed, but the burden of making that payment fluctuates wildly with the market and as your client ages. When a portfolio is down 20%, that payment feels like an anchor, forcing clients to sell assets at the worst possible time just to stay afloat.

This financial stress isn't static; it compounds with age, impacting health and quality of life.

By eliminating the mandatory monthly mortgage payment, you are giving your client more than just improved cash flow. You are severing the dangerous link between market volatility and their ability to stay in their home. You are taking a massive, recurring source of stress off the table for life. That is a dividend that can't be quantified but will be deeply felt every single day.

(For a deeper exploration of this critical topic, read our companion piece: The #1 Retirement Risk Your Clients Aren't Talking About.

Compare that to the "do nothing" scenario. The heirs would get the $1 million house, yes, but the investment portfolio would be $730,000 smaller. By using the HECM strategically, your client could increase the total value of their estate by over $300,000.

The Unbeatable Safety Net: The HECM's Built-in Guardrails

A key part of the "planning-first" conversation is educating clients on the powerful consumer protections baked into this federally insured loan. These aren't just features; they are a structural safety net that makes the entire strategy possible.

  • It's a Non-Recourse Loan: This is the most important guarantee. The estate will never owe more than the home is worth at the time of sale. If the loan balance grows to exceed the home's value, the FHA insurance covers the difference. The lender can never go after other family assets.

  • The Heirs Have Time and Options:  After the last borrower permanently leaves the home, the estate typically has six months to resolve the loan. Extensions up to a year are often available at the lender's discretion. This gives the family time to make the best decision—whether that's selling the home and keeping the remaining equity, or refinancing the loan with their mortgage to keep the family home.

  • The Risk is Transferred to the Lender: Here’s a little-known fact. The available line of credit on a HECM grows at a rate tied to the loan's interest rate, completely independent of the home's value. If property values were to fall through the floor while rates went through the roof, the borrower's available credit line would still grow. The lender and the FHA, not your client, assume that market risk.

  • There is No Expiration Date: A traditional mortgage has a 30-year fuse. At the end of that term, a decision must be made. A reverse mortgage is different; it's designed to last for your entire retirement. The loan doesn't "come due" just because you hit a certain anniversary. It provides true, long-term security without the pressure of a looming term limit.


Your Role as the Advisor

This isn't about "selling" a reverse mortgage. It's about shifting to a "planning-first" mindset. For many clients, especially veterans who have lived by planning their entire careers, seeing a comprehensive, long-term plan is the key to building trust.

The content of this article is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be construed as financial, investment, legal, or tax advice. The scenarios and figures presented are hypothetical and for illustrative purposes only. They are not a guarantee of future results.

The borrower remains the owner of your home and is responsible for paying property taxes, homeowner's insurance, and for home maintenance. The loan becomes due and payable when the last borrower or non-borrowing spouse passes away or permanently leaves the home.

  Enduro Mortgage is an Equal Housing Lender. We do not engage in business practices that discriminate on the basis of race, color, religion, national origin, sex, marital status, or age.  

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